Unbearable Lightness: A Story of Loss and Gain - Portia de Rossi The book was well written. I don't know that I actually enjoyed it. It was difficult to read sometimes because I wanted to take her by the shoulders and shake her. I wanted to say, "What the hell?" She did a great job of describing her thinking and what she was feeling. I actually admire her courage in writing the book. It is truely amazing what a person can talk themselves into thinking.